O.K, just to clear up any confusion:
Tazzie & I have been together for 7 or 8 months now. Not long in the great scheme of things I know, but long enough for her to become heavily involved in all that goes on here. She lives & works on a country estate near Guildford, drives a posh BMW, (hey, no-one's perfect), & we're quietly collecting parts for her first trike project, which she's keen to get spannering on herself.
I'm selling my flat in beautiful, cosmopolitan Basingstoke & the plan was to put the profit in the bank & move in with Taz. I got cold feet though. It's a big move after living in my own little flat for over 10 years & Taz's cottage is -well, let's just say it's a daunting prospect for someone as picky about cleanliness as me. I thought I couldn't go through with it. We split up. Several threads here mentioned the fact, including the garden clearance one.
Well, thankfully, I've been persuaded I was wrong, we can make it work & we can live happily ever after.
If you choose to share your life with your forum then you've got to show the bad as well as the good so I'm happy to announce young Tazzie & I are back on track.